B’s Kitchen

Saturday night we went to a wedding.  It was very nice — a short, pretty ceremony followed by dinner and dancing and desserts.  The planned desserts were wedding cake, an outdoor s’more station, and donuts, but the family member tasked with picking up the donuts forgot to pick them up. No big deal, really, cake … Read more

Happy 2016!

This is a copy of the New Year’s letter I sent to some folks today. Happy New Year! Apologies if I asked for your address and implied you might get a card. That project lost steam.  Hang on for next year, though – because I already bought the cards. In the meantime,  here’s a little … Read more

Least Favorite Night of the Year

My yearly scans: colonscopy, endoscopy, various ultrasounds and a trip to the dermatologist, are like my annual mini-gauntlet that must be run before the pleasant holidays.  The first on that list is, of course, the least favorite, due to the day of fasting, followed by the night-long uncomfortable evening of “prep.” That evening was last … Read more

How Frustrating is the DMV, Guys?

Austin Film Festival countdown: 3 days. Awesome, I’m excited to go, except not, because — I’m sure I’ve covered this in other posts — PACKING ANXIETY. Sometimes I’m late because I don’t want to go to things.  But mostly I’m late because I don’t want to get ready to go.  I find making getting-ready-to-go decisions  … Read more

It’s Free Script Season!

Movie awards season. I have mixed feelings about the awards themselves. Living in proximity to that world, I become ever more aware of all the lobbying and advertising, and how the people who get to vote on such things rarely have time to even watch everything they are supposed to be choosing between… And then … Read more

Aspect Ratios and Conquering My Lazy Brain

My brain is lazy. When it comes to screenwriting, there are those who say you don’t need guys in front of classrooms to teach you to tell a story. “Just read scripts,” they say, “and you will learn all you need to learn.” What they mean by that (I hope, at least), is not really … Read more

Financing Your Independent Film in 3 Easy Steps

So this is it: My first Lovers in Their Right Mind “Friday Process Post.” Our movie is a about an African-American woman who falls in love with a Persian man, and has to decide whether to be with him at the risk of losing the support of her family and community. The woman—whose name is … Read more